Is It Breaking You Or Making You?
Dear Beautiful Being,
It’s November, the time of year when I want to say "thank you" for following my work and for purchasing my sessions, books, programs and courses. Not only does your shopping make me happy, giving me fuel to keep going, I also know that you are living happier and with more fulfillment because of your wildly ways of investing in my tools and methods which beats any other reasons as to why I do what I do.
So as you are reading this, a huge “Thank You Cloud” filled with loving energy is arriving to embrace you warmly into a cozy hug. Right now, feel it; smile; and, if you can, share it with everyone around you!
This month I want to highlight something we all do and ask of others, all the time:
Remembering. We remember, and ask others to remember too.
Remembering is something natural and so simple, yet a lot of times we don’t understand or don’t know how to use the art of remembering or the practice of remembering as it is intended.
Instead, we remember the not good-feeling and unhelpful stuff or we make ourselves remember in negative ways the chores, bills, problems, pain, or even the lack of something because we think negatively about these chores, bills, problems, pain, and lack; but this negativity has nothing to do with the art of remembering - which is a wonderful, positive ability - but with how we perceive these things.
Remembering on its own is a very neutral and potent ability, meaning that depending on how you use it, it can either make you or it can break you—and in rather instant ways.
Most people practice remembering or think about the meaning of “remember” from an old habit of feeling the value of remembering from a hard-working and disciplinary energy, stemming from way back in time when they were kids. For example:
“Remember your homework.” “Remember to take your shoes off when coming inside.” “Remember the rules.” “Remember to say please and thank you.” “Remember the lessons at school," or, "don’t you remember how it works?” And so on…
We all heard it plenty of times growing up, used negatively and somewhat bossily.
I want you to close your eyes and imagine asking the word "remember" and the ability of remembering how it feels about that bitter, negative aftertaste it has been given over the years—or has been practiced as and then made into a habit generation after generation.
I can guarantee you that there’s no agreement, let alone any happiness, coming from the pure essence of what remembering and "remember" really is. Instead, I believe that "remember" and the art of remembering would advise everyone to remember that it’s meant to be used in more positive, or at least neutral, ways—and also to not forget how incredibly potent and immediately shifting it can be.
Remembering the friend - or telling a person to remember a friend - that made you mad, went behind your back, or hurt you in any way is breaking you. Literally! Remembering in such a way is breaking your natural cycle of being aligned with who you really are—with your possible health, well-feeling, and happiness; not only that, but also your success because it’s negative and hurtful, creating unhelpful feelings for you and everyone involved. Using the art of remembering in such negative ways creates unalignment because it’s the opposite of what you and everyone involved truly are: pure positive energy.
If you take remembering into the complete opposite direction, for example remembering the best meal you ever had, the biggest laugh you ever bellied out, the nicest gift you have ever given or received, the last time you went dancing, were happy, ate an ice cream cone, or trusted and loved unconditionally makes you, because it aligns you instantly with your perfectly fitting essence which is pure positive energy.
As for the chores, bills, pain, and such, realize that the negative impact is not to be attached to the art of remembering. Instead, ask yourself how you can shift your perception of these things to a better state and then remember them through joy.
So use the month of November to become aware of your negative ways of remembering, or asking others to remember. Reprogram your old habitual ways of "remember" and remembering and start using the act of remembering in helpful ways that make you, not break you.
Plus, November already comes with natural positivity because of its grateful vibes, supporting you to create your highest celebratory space, time, place, and habit to make a priority of remembering only the best of the best that was, and is, in your life. Deeply remember THAT while indulging into feeling these aligning emotions again and again, every day, multiple times.
Then after a week look back and investigate, like a detective, how much your life has changed. Promise; you will find a whole lot has changed.
Now, I get it—reprogramming yourself to remember in new and better ways can be hard at times because these habitual parts of you are automatic, while new ways have to be practiced over and over, very consciously.
That’s why having tools that help you to remember are useful, and lucky you, I got you covered. As a holistic practitioner and bestselling author with emphasis on the wholesome healing of people, I involve teachings like:
- Energetic living and businessing
- Happiness programs and courses
- Personal development books
- Mindfulness workshops
- Mediumship, psychic, and metaphysical teachings
- Hypnosis sessions for trauma release and deep relaxation
- And so much more…
Here are the top 4 tools I recommend for you to change your habits—so they don’t break you, and instead, make you:
365 Days of Happiness - The Program — Use code BLACKFRIDAY23 for 50% off original price
Life IS Beautiful - Here’s To New Beginnings — The Book
Helping in these healing ways means the world to me - actually, this is the only way I stay happy and healthy - and to be able to support and show people all over the world that they can be happy and healthy too is pure magic.
But wait, there’s more… How about a great list of special days you can remember during your break-your-habit month? To put a smile on your face and help you to get into your life’s a peach mood, here are some fun days to watch out for:
November 3: Cliché Day - I say old cliché of remembering out, while new remembering in!
November 4: Book Lovers Day - Get my books, get my books…
November 6: Saxophone Day - Why not?!
November 7: Bittersweet Chocolate with Almonds Day & International Merlot Day - Those go wonderfully well together!
November 8: Cook Something Bold Day - Remember, we are talking BOLD here!
November 9: Chaos Never Dies Day - It really never does, but remember not to entangle.
November 13: World Kindness Day - Who gets your kindness today?
November 14: Young Readers Day - Get my books, get my books…
November 15: Clean Your Refrigerator Day - Remember it’s not the remembering’s fault!
November 16: Button Day - Button up!
November 17: Take A Hike Day - Where will you go?
November 20: Universal Children’s Day - Remember, the children are the future!
November 22: Love Your Freckles Day - I have plenty, want some?
November 30: Stay At Home Because You Are Well Day - Remember, you are well!
So remember, give “remember” a chance to make you instead of break you!
Happiest,
Jacqueline